What you hold on to, you'll lose.
Monday, December 17, 2007
I've been into korean drama nowadays... But the more i see the more i'm engrossed in all those lovely couples... Its seems so unexpected on how these things can happen on them?
Is it really so hard to get what you hoped for? YES! It is. If I'm getting something too easy, it will not be challenging and I may not cherish what I have. So things that are in scarecity, are those that are precious.
I've a couple of plan for dear's christmas present but its seems that it will not work... Must really think what should I do/buy... Maybe the best thing is ... NOTHING? haha...
Yesterday's star award topic, "Don't yearn too much for the award, and you'll get it..." Does it works? Nope... But it do make a point as in, if we get it, its a award, if we don't, life still goes on and we should not be overly eager to get it. The best actor waited for 20yrs. Woah! Everybody say "Woah"...
It do make me think that what we hold on tightly we will eventually lose, but what we let go, we may gain even more... Its like fishing, We got to let go of the bait, in order to get the fish. If we hold the line too tightly, we will not catch the big fish.
Same applies to Kite flying (althought I hate people who fly kite).. So maybe this christmas, no plan is better than have plan... Like "独孤九剑", "无招胜有招". Because those who fails to plan, plans to fails. And since you plan to fails, anything extra is a gift.
I should not take all things too seriously and not to be too stubbon in what i want to get... What will be will be, i will get what i'll get... Life is a balance and now is the season for giving and not receiving...
Christmas the season for giving. :)