Puzzlement
Wednesday, October 17, 2007
Been in a state of confusion lately. Been asking question with answer that do not tally with what they meant. Dun say things of what u dun mean… So is this how people should relate? Living a a life full of parables, guessing? I don’t know… Perhaps I dun understand…
Please kindly enlighten me…
Eg1. During lunch timeA ask the B where shall we go eat?
B answered “anything”, let the front people decide.
A discuss with the front people and say lets go “X”
B didn’t say anything but stand there and say “Anything”(seemed forced)
C ask B shall we go “Y” and B say ok.
Conclusion : Since B know where to go, might as well make the decision in the beginning.
Eg2. Asking a person out?A ask B are u free to go out on dd/mm/yy wif me?
B answered yes…. (seems forced)
Then A ask are u pressured to go?
B ans No..
(after 1 hr of discussion)
A ask B so we confirm going?
B say " Okie lo..we go out ba"
Conclusion : Did B go because B is forced????
Well no body like to force ppl doing what is not their will… so please speak out what u really want. And say things of what u meant.
Saying things of what u dun mean => lying, deceitful, dishonest, insincere, untruthful, mendacious, false, two-faced… Well it may be a white-lies… but still a lie… Tactical without ethic?